Single Adults
FREE SINGLES COUNSELING
It's very difficult to find relationship education for single adults anywhere these days. How do you "fit" in this world- find your purpose on Earth - how do you find your soulmate, if that's what you desire? And, if not, how do you successfully navigate the "single waters?" There are all types of single people; the never before married, those who are completely single with no partner, those who are living with a partner, widows and divorced. There are diverse solutions for each category.
After you have completed all required paperwork below, I will get with you one-on-one to teach and counsel you. Counseling is always free of charge and done simultaneously, but, I teach all singles a lesson which is $30.00 per lesson/counseling session. Each session will be between 1.5-4 hours, depending on the individuals needs.
THE COUNSELING
The first step to making an appointment for free counseling is for you to fill out the following questionnaire. First, copy and paste the following singles questionnaire into a word document-then, fill out your answers and then email it to me at starr@marriage101.net
SINGLES QUESTIONNAIRE
Your answers are all strictly confidential and will not be viewed by anyone other than myself as your counselor, so please be totally honest so I can help you.
Name: Facebook name:
Date:
Email:
Home address:
Age:
Cell phone:
Your place of employment:
Position at your job:
YOU
1. Are you buying a home or renting an apartment?
2. Do you live alone or with someone else?
3. If so, what is the nature of that relationship and for how long?
4. Are you divorced or separated?
5. If so, for how long?
6. When was the last time you dated someone?
7. If so, how did it turn out?
8. What are the main problems you experience being single?
9. Do you like being single?
10. Do you visit dating websites?
11. Someday, do you want to be married?
12. (I realize this is personal but I need this answer) Are you currently having sex with anyone right now? If so, how many different people?
13. Are you serious about anyone right now?
14. If so, how long has the relationship been going on?
15. Do you use protection?
16. Do you use pornography?
17. Do you have any financial issues?
18. Do you tend to be controlling?
19. Do you suffer with depression? Explain.
20. Do you read books?
21. If so, are they fiction or non-fiction in nature?
22. Do you have trouble finding or keeping a job?
23. Are you having any problems at work?
24. How long have you been at your current job?
25. Where have you worked and for how long for each job over the past 5 years?
CHILDREN (if you have no children, skip this section)
26. (If you have children) How many children do you have?
27. Were you married when you had the children (please go into detail)
28. Did the children come from different relationships and if so how many?
29. How old are the children and are they boys or girls?
30. Which children live with you?
31. Does their father/mother have visits with them regularly, or if they don’t live with you, do you?
32. Are you having any trouble with any of the children?
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SPIRITUAL
33. Do you believe in God?
34. Do you pray daily?
35. Where do you attend church?
36. Do you attend regularly together?
37. Describe your relationship with Jesus and if you have one.
38. Do you have a tough time forgiving?
39. Who and when were you first introduced to Jesus?
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GROWING UP- PARENTS ETC.
40. Ages of your parents and siblings:
41. Did someone other than your parents raise you?
42. Did either of your parents abuse you in any way?
43. Where are you in the birth order? (ex: firstborn, middle-born etc.)
44. Are your parents still married?
45. If not, why did they divorce?
46. Does divorce run in your family?
47. Do you have a good relationship with your family?
48. If not, why not?
49. Describe life at home growing up. (PLEASE BE DETAILED)
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SOCIAL
50. Which do you have more of: married or single friends?
51. Do you socialize at bars on a weekly basis?
52. Do you have any hobbies or participate in sports activities on a regular basis?
53. Do you believe you are on your phone too much?
54. Do you hang out with or text daily or talk to and confide in with a member of the opposite sex?
PHYSICAL
55. How many hours sleep do you get on an average?
56. When was the last time you went out alone together?
57. How much water do you average daily?
58. Do you take medication?
59. If so, what for?
60. Are you addicted to alcohol or any other substances?
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61. What do you expect to gain by attending the monthly classes?
62. What problem do you need counseling for?
63. Have you been to other counselors for help and if so, how many and what have the results been?
This is the end of the questionnaire- Now, copy and paste your answers into a word document and email to me at starr@marriage101.net
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Now, copy and paste this link into your browser: https://www.understandmyself.com/personality-assessment
Take the Understand Myself test ($9.99)
This is the only test you will have to pay for online, but I need this to help you. After you are finished taking the test, copy and paste your full results page onto a word document and email them as attachments to starr@marriage101.net as follows:
Open a word document, highlight ONLY your test results and paste them. (all test results on one document please) then email the document to starr@marriage101.net Please DO NOT send us the link on the website. It will not give us your results.
The specialized, personalized report you will receive after completing the process will help you understand your personality in great detail, and aid you substantially in your understanding of others. It will help you determine what jobs suit you and why, what sort of people you are likely to find compatible (and incompatible), where your strengths and weaknesses lie and, perhaps most importantly, just how profound the differences between individuals actually are. This will show me where you are having the most trouble as a couple.
It isn’t only that we differ in our opinions. We differ in how we perceive the world, how we filter our facts, and how we arrange our goals and actions. Appreciation for the genuine differences between people can help you orient yourself in the world, and appreciate the truly diverse viewpoints necessary to make the complex systems of society function, as well as increasing your comprehension of the singular and unique combination of basic traits and subsidiary aspects that characterize you, personally.
When I have your results from this test, I will do a work-up on you and contact you for an appointment. Counseling is always free of charge-the class I give you is $30.00- the class accompanies the free counseling. This fee is payable at the beginning of your appointment with me before we begin..
We do not provide childcare while you are attending your counseling sessions. My time is very limited, so if you cancel an appointment I have set with you, it hurts other people waiting in line for their appointment. I allow one canceled appointment but after that, if there is another, I can no longer make appointments with you.
I realize that completing the questionnaire and taking and submitting the tests will take time, but if you are committed to working on yourself and not repeating the same mistakes in the past, you will do whatever it takes to get help. There are people who won't do the work, but we are hoping you aren't one of them. You are worth it. Do it today!